Keep The Home Fires Burning

Today's message comes from the heart of a sappy blogger.  My husband and I have been together 13 years this summer.  I think about those years and I am reminded of the good times, the bad ones, the ugly situations, the embarrassing moments,  and the rolling on the floor funny as hell ones, too.  So in honor of my soul mate, I thought I would blog a few thoughts about marriage.

A spark became a flame and a relationship ignited with your partner.  Remember that wonderful feeling that made you say "yes" to the one you love?  From that three letter word grew a home and a family complete with all of life's additions and subtractions.

Now, all fires require maintenance.  Fan the flame by spending time with just the two of you.  Be open to creative ways to express your love.  Physical actions like holding hands and making the time to be intimate.  Verbal reinforcements like saying "I love you" and reminding them you feel "blessed to be together" can make all the difference between a good day and a great one!  It is a beautiful thing to love and be loved in return.

Keep in mind that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, or a perfect spouse for that matter.  Everyone has their annoying/endearing traits.  It is simply important to take care of each other. Keep focused on the fact that the two of you made a commitment to grow old together.  A mate for life is a blessing.  (Occasionally disguised as a pain in the ass! LOL!)  So tonight, tell your mate you love them, hold their hand for no reason and vow to keep the home fires burning.